This thing called love has been a mysterious form of feelings that none was able to define it clearly. And I dont think it would be defined either. Even if some generous man/woman, by falling in many loves :P with many partners, or observing, and churning their heart with brain and vice versa, discovers a meaning, our so generation (x, x++, x+++) kids dithers it and can make it still perplex and compicated. Ode to the changing chemistry in relations as time passes.
Here goes another angle from my side, don't know if somebody else has already shot from this side. Generally, you will find yourself more joyous and happier when you realize yourself that you have no secrets that you cannot put in people. But, by nature, every humna being has secrets very much personnal to them. Those secrets might be harmless to anybody, might be of one's weaknesses in nature. But, none want to live with them. They keep on pointing on him/her that "you are not perfect". And the dire fact can be that, he/she can never be perfect. Guys, there is no space to them on this earth who are imperfect. To speak honestly, everybody cheats others, live in guise. Because, truely, none is perfect. But, this heart made by God, is very much benevolent. So, it tries to confess, that its not perfect. But, it cannot go on public and confess bigger and lound that he/she is imperfect. Because of the humiliation that may come in response, than a considerate pat of "its okay, carry on". But, the yearning to confess doesnt cease so easily. Here comes the search for at least one, one sweet thing, we generally call, apart from many sweet names we give, but to the one whom we think is the best source of secrecy that your secrets are safe. Where you are emotionally safe. You will never be ridiculed of your weakness, but earn lot of compassion to that fact. Isn't it where, you even doesn't bother to go and die. can't we call this love ?
The question is why you find an opposite sex for this thing, as a safe locker for your emotions. Well there are reasons, and are quite self explanatory. Their nature is more of senses. The bulging steams of your feelings of gratitude, selfishely being named as love (but its okay) should end gloriously through all your senses, in a place where they are best treated. Isn't it that, the sweet embrace of your love ?
Here goes another angle from my side, don't know if somebody else has already shot from this side. Generally, you will find yourself more joyous and happier when you realize yourself that you have no secrets that you cannot put in people. But, by nature, every humna being has secrets very much personnal to them. Those secrets might be harmless to anybody, might be of one's weaknesses in nature. But, none want to live with them. They keep on pointing on him/her that "you are not perfect". And the dire fact can be that, he/she can never be perfect. Guys, there is no space to them on this earth who are imperfect. To speak honestly, everybody cheats others, live in guise. Because, truely, none is perfect. But, this heart made by God, is very much benevolent. So, it tries to confess, that its not perfect. But, it cannot go on public and confess bigger and lound that he/she is imperfect. Because of the humiliation that may come in response, than a considerate pat of "its okay, carry on". But, the yearning to confess doesnt cease so easily. Here comes the search for at least one, one sweet thing, we generally call, apart from many sweet names we give, but to the one whom we think is the best source of secrecy that your secrets are safe. Where you are emotionally safe. You will never be ridiculed of your weakness, but earn lot of compassion to that fact. Isn't it where, you even doesn't bother to go and die. can't we call this love ?
The question is why you find an opposite sex for this thing, as a safe locker for your emotions. Well there are reasons, and are quite self explanatory. Their nature is more of senses. The bulging steams of your feelings of gratitude, selfishely being named as love (but its okay) should end gloriously through all your senses, in a place where they are best treated. Isn't it that, the sweet embrace of your love ?
2 comments:
I agree. Unfortunately, society does not allow for the Achilles heel primarily because of fear. If individuals can realize imperfection is part of the master plan and learn to accept imperfections, then I see compassion as a result. The search for perfection has created an element of constant dissatisfaction with the self and those around us. Strengh is to show vulnerability and that aids in the understanding that no one is alone in their misery and struggle for survival. Love is about unconditional understanding - something the world knows little about. Namaste - tatiana
hi, tis cool
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